Janet and I have been friends since our early years as students at the University of Pennsylvania. We were part of the theatre community at Penn and I have always admired Janet for her ability to always go her own way and be her own person with confidence. In the last year she has become my own personal dog whisperer, a skill she developed after adopting and raising her adorable pups, Bruno and Melody.
Her expert advice and guidance helped me to become a responsible and loving dog owner and I wanted to showcase her knowledge on this subject for anyone considering adopting a pet of their own. This is my small attempt at thanking her for all of her help and advice as I go through the process of raising my rescue pup, Phineas.
Christa – How did you know you were ready to adopt your dogs? Were there certain circusmtances in your life that made this time a particularly good one for you to get a pup?
Janet – I’d wanted to adopt a dog for quite some time. I adopted Bruno right after I graduated from business school because I knew I’d be settling into a regular schedule with my job at that point in time. I knew that dogs need a schedule and structure, so it just seemed like the right time for me.
Christa – I know you are a huge advocate for pet rescue, as am I. How did you make the decision to adopt your dogs versus buying them from a breeder?
Janet – Just walking into an animal shelter makes you realize how many dogs are in desperate need of homes. To me, it just seems unconscionable to get a puppy from a breeder when so many adult dogs are being euthanized daily in our nation’s shelters. Before breeding new dogs, it is our responsibility to first care for the ones who already exist and are in need of homes.
Christa – What drove the decision to get your Melody after you adopted Bruno?
Janet – I think I started feeling a bit guilty that Bruno was home alone all day while I was at work, so I made the decision to foster for a local rescue group as a way to help animals in need while also providing Bruno with some companionship. Dogs are very social, pack animals, and most dogs appreciate being in the company of other dogs. Melody started out as a foster, but I after seeing how well she and Bruno got along and how nicely she fit into my household, I decided to make her a permanent part of the family.
Christa – When adopting a dog, were there any specific traits that you were looking for?
Janet – When I adopted Bruno, I was looking for a sporty dog, since I’m a pretty active person. I intended on adopting a 20-30 pound dog (I lived in an apartment at the time and there was a weight restriction for dogs there) that I could take with me running and on hikes. I ended up taking home an adorable fluff ball who stole my heart at the shelter.
Christa – When you were starting out as a dog owners, were there resources or products that you turned to that were especially helpful?
Janet – I did a lot of research online. Google was my friend for quite some time. I also highly recommend any dog owner, experienced or new, when bringing a new dog into their household sign up for a basic training class. The training class provides structure and is an opportunity for your dog to learn to socialize and behave in the presence of other dogs outside the home. Furthermore, training helps you form a bond with your new pet.
Christa – What’s been the thing that has surprised you the most about being a dog owner?
Janet – When I started out with Bruno, I never thought in a million years I’d have a dog sleeping in my bed with me. I’d always intended for him to have his dog bed to sleep in every night. Two years later, I couldn’t bear the thought of sleeping without him next to me. I guess you could say I’m surprised at how deeply I love my dogs and how close our bond is!
Christa – Do you have any advice for people who are thinking of getting a new dog? Are there certain circumstances in their life that they need to develop before bringing a new pup into their lives?
Janet – Yes. Always, always, always do your research before you adopt. Understand yourself and your lifestyle before bringing a dog into your home. Different dogs have different needs. For instance, puppies especially require a lot of time, attention and training. If you work 12 hours days, a puppy is not the right choice for you. You might want to consider adopting an adult dog already past the puppy stage and be prepared to hire a dog walker or find a doggy day care facility for your dog if you do work long hours, or consider adopting a bonded pair of adult dogs so they have each other as company while you are gone all day.
Also consider your breed carefully. If you’ve always dreamed of owning a Vizsla, but you are a couch potato who lives in a studio apartment in Manhattan, you should probably reconsider your choice, as Vizslas need lots of exercise or else they will likely become bored and destructive. Concentrate on finding the right dog(s) for you and your lifestyle. I believe just about anyone can have a dog if they want one, but it does often mean making some sacrifices and compromises to accommodate your dog’s needs.
Please understand adopting a dog is a commitment to the care of that animal for its entire lifetime, which can be up to 15-20 years. Some other things to consider are if you are financially capable of caring for your dog should it become ill and require medical treatment, daily upkeep costs such as food and grooming, your willingness to tolerate damage to your home and possessions as I guarantee no matter how well behaved and trained your dog is, there will inevitably be accidents and destruction of some sort at some point, your willingness and ability to deal with training and behavior issues, who will care for your dog while you are at work and/or on vacation, and any other changes to your lifestyle/schedule you can anticipate happening during the course of your dog’s lifetime such as job demands, moving, marriage/divorce, having children, or retirement. Are you prepared to make sacrifices for your pet, from the perspective of both time and money?
Adopting a pet should never be an “impulse buy”. Dogs look to humans for leadership, care and affection. If you can’t adequately provide these things to your dog, you shouldn’t have one. Please do not contribute to the overcrowding problem in our nation’s shelters and carefully consider your ability to fully care for your pet for its entire life. Pet ownership is a highly rewarding experience, but it is not a decision that should be taken lightly!
Janet is the proud owner of 2 rescue dogs, Bruno, a Pekingese/Cocker
Spaniel mix and Melody, a Lhasa Apso. Janet, an animal rescue
volunteer, lives and works in sunny Los Angeles, CA. She maintains
her own snarky blog about the little things in life at
http://miniletters.wordpress.com. To keep up with Bruno and Melody,
please “like” them on Facebook.