Christmas, generosity, gifts

Beautiful: On the Fifth Day of Christmas, Let There Be More Generosity

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“Generosity is the best investment.” ~ Diane Von Furstenberg

We have so many ways to give, and so much to offer to one another. It’s the great conundrum of our society that there is always someone else who is having a tougher time than we are. And yet this knowledge, while sad in some ways, is incredible in other ways because it means we always have the chance to make life better for someone else. Generosity is the vehicle for goodness, and it’s at our disposal of every hour of every day. There are endless opportunities for us to express it, appreciate it, and foster it. So spread some cheer around everywhere you go. The more you give, the more you realize you have – it’s a wonderful riddle that needs no solution.

This post is part of the “Let there be…” consecutive series of Christmas wishes

Christmas, kindness

Beautiful: On the Fourth Day of Christmas, Let There Be More Kindness

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Let’s make kindness the new black. It takes more energy and effort to be unkind than it takes to be kind, and the rewards and benefits of kindness are so rich. They’re contagious, too. When we’re kind to ourselves, we have the capacity to be kind to others. This creates a ripple effect so that your kindness extends from your acts into the acts of others, and others, and others. There are chain reactions of kindness happening right now, all around us. It’s the one gift that keeps on giving, and it costs nothing. Smile at someone. Compliment them. Hold the door open. Say please and thank you and you’re welcome. And mean it. That’s all it takes, and it gives so much.

This post is part of the “Let there be…” consecutive series of Christmas wishes

Christmas, peace

Beautiful: On the Third Day of Christmas, Let There Be More Peace

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“Peace. It does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work. It means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.” ~ Unkown.

So much of our history has been about wars of all shapes and sizes. Conflict. People who lived and fought and died for ideals. History is a wonderful teacher but it need not define the future. We can change within our own hearts to generate change in the world. It is often said that in times of peace, we should be prepared for war. I disagree. We generate what we prepare for and I hope we are always prepared for peace, that we can be willing to accept peace, and work for ways to foster and build it. Peace within our own heart, with our past, and with others. In a world that is so full of violence and discord, I believe that peace is the surest and best way forward on all paths.

This post is part of the “Let there be…” consecutive series of Christmas wishes

Christmas, community, compassion

Beautiful: On the Second Day of Christmas, Let There Be More Compassion

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“It is only with true love and compassion that we can begin to mend what is broken in the world.” ~ Dr. Steve Maraboli

When I posted my first day of Christmas wish (love), my friend, Lorenzo, said he wished to see more compassion in the world. On the second day of Christmas, I make this same wish. Let there be more compassion in the world. Compassion for ourselves and others, which will lead us to love, as Lorenzo so beautifully said.

Sometimes we are too quick to judge and blame others. We beat ourselves up over mistakes and mishaps – I am the queen of this. We aren’t perfect, and neither is life. It’s messy and complicated, as are we. We have only just so much information, about our experience, the experience of others, and the ways in which the world works. Compassion is a way to bridge the gap, a way to say, “I don’t understand and still I choose to be curious, to put my own opinions aside and see things from a different vantage point.”

This post is part of the “Let there be…” consecutive series of Christmas wishes

Christmas, love

Beautiful: On the First Day of Christmas, Let There Be More Love

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Christmas is a magical time for wish making and wish granting. There are 12 days until Christmas and I’m counting down to the holidays with a series of posts called “Let there be…”. Starting today I’ll write a post each day about what I’d like to see more of in the world. These are things we can seek out and they’re things we can create for ourselves and others.

On the first day of Christmas, I’d like to see more love in the world. Love for self. Love for others. Love for community. Love for love. There is no such thing as too much of it. It can only help and it never hurts. It heals, saves, and serves in every circumstance. It makes everything better, always.

Christmas, cooking, food, gifts

Leap: My Favorite Christmas Gift – a Pasta Press

mail.google.comThe presents I love the most are ones that are old, passed down through loving hands, and put to good use immediately.

Over the past few months, I’ve been working on the skill of making homemade pasta. I’ve tried a few different recipes, purchased a couple of books, and signed myself up for a class here in NYC (more on that once I complete the class.) There’s something very satisfying about crafting food with my hands that gives me a happy glow. I love the feeling of kneading the dough, forming the pasta with my hands, and then watching it float to the top of a pot of salty water to meet its destiny on a plate covered with homemade sauce and freshly grated cheese.

Hearing about my new-found pasta creation hobby, my mom boxed up the pasta machine pictured here out of her own kitchen. It’s older than I am, simple to use, and gets the job done when it comes to noodle making. I’m not sure where this new hobby is leading me – perhaps in the direction of another entrepreneurial venture? – but I’m planning to cook and eat my way wherever it goes. (Thanks, Mom!)

If you’re up for enjoying a plate of homemade pasta with me and giving me feedback on the recipes, come on over for dinner!

Christmas, family, friendship, holiday

Leap: Your Presence at Christmas

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Today there is so much emphasis on presents. My focus is on presence – mine and that of all the beautiful people around me. Wishing you a day filled with everyone and everything that makes you happy.

Christmas, holiday, Muppet, music

Happy Holidays from Christa, Phineas, and Rowlf the Dog

 

Phineas and I are sending you buckets of happiness, health, and laughter for the start of a joyful 2012. Enjoy every minute of it!

(And for good measure, I’m also including a link to my favorite Christmas song of all time – Rowlf the Dog and John Denver singing a duet of Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas.)

Click to play this Smilebox greeting
Christmas, faith, religion

Step 360: My Christmas Story

My faith has morphed over the years. I was raised Catholic, thought for a bit about being a Unitarian and a Buddhist, and then through yoga thought that Hinduism may be a possibility. Finally, I happily settled on being interested in religion and calling myself spiritual without affiliation.

So it came as quite a surprise that Christmas Eve found me in a Methodist Church pondering my faith again. I went with my family to the First United Methodist Church of Orlando. I really went because I wanted to support my sister; she’s on staff there and runs all of the communications for the Church. She and my brother-in-law were married in that church and both of my nieces were baptized there. Plus, I love Christmas carols, of which there are many at the family service.

And then a very odd thing happened. The Head Pastor gave a sermon about people unlikely to call themselves religious. He talked about Joseph and his very serious consideration of leaving behind his family and his faith. After further contemplation, he felt something greater than himself asking him to stay, to persevere, to not give up. He talked about people who have considered giving up on their faith, people who doubt and question, people who feel like they don’t really belong to any affiliation. The remarkable thing is that he didn’t talk down to those people; he didn’t criticize them. Quite the opposite – he invited them in. In a moment of silence he asked us to bow our heads, close our eyes, and raise our hands if anyone felt like they might belong to one of those groups, and would like the congregation to pray for them.

I found that the idea of staying, just sticking around to see how it goes, made my eyes water, and I raised my hand. I did need the prayers he so generously offered. On Christmas Eve I felt a little lost, a little out-of-place, but still moved to further explore my faith, and even considering that spiritual without affiliation may not be enough for me anymore. And even though I felt lost, I also felt that I was in exactly the right place, as if that Pastor, and maybe even the Universe, knew what I needed far better than I did.

We closed the service by lighting candles and walking together out of the church singing Silent Night. I was surprised how warm the light of my candle felt, alarmingly warm. I felt a little message in that flame. If I stayed, maybe some answers would show up, answers that in all of my exploring I have not yet been able to find. Rather than dashing here, there, and everywhere, maybe I just needed to be still, and wait, and listen.

That’s my Christmas story this year. How did it go for you?

The image above makes me remember how much can be found through faith. Find it here.

Christmas, holiday, story

Step 356: Fun With Popular Christmas Folklore – Figgy Pudding, Yuletide, and More

I was in church with my family on Sunday morning and the Minister told us the story of the candy cane, how it was shaped like the staff of a shepherd to symbolize the important role of the then-lowly shepherds in announcing Jesus’s birth to the world. At the time shepherds were considered unclean and unfit for enlightened life. The fact that they were chosen as the first people to greet the new-born king is no coincidence, and the idea of fairness and equality are themes echoed through out Christmas teachings. I’ve enjoyed numerous candy canes over the years and never thought twice about why they had that specific shape or how they came to be. That got me thinking about folklore and how many ideas and concepts have roots very different from our current understanding of their meaning.

I took the liberty of doing some holiday research to uncover the origins of several popular Christmas terms that have cool stories on par with the candy cane story I heard in church. Many thanks to Wikipedia for its endless collection of little known tidbits. Enjoy!

Sugar plum: what makes them so tantalizing that they’d be dancing in children’s heads? “Plum” in the name of this confection does not mean plum in the sense of the fruit of the same name. At one time, “plum” was used to denote any dried fruit. Sugar plums can be made from any combination of dried plums (aka prunes), dried figs, dried apricots, dried dates, and dried cherries. The dried fruit is chopped fine and combined with chopped almonds, honey, and aromatic spices, such as anise seed, fennel seed, caraway seeds, and cardamom. This mixture would then be rolled into balls, often then coated in sugar or shredded coconut. Okay, I get it. Sounds delicious!

Yuletide: turns out that Christians know a good party when they see it! Yule or Yule-tide (“Yule-time”) is a winter festival that was initially celebrated by the historical Germanic people as a pagan religious festival, though it was later absorbed into, and equated with, the Christian festival of Christmas.

Figgy pudding: with or without bacon (thank you John Denver and The Muppets), is this dish really as simple as it sounds? Figgy pudding is a pudding resembling something like a white Christmas pudding containing figs. The pudding may be baked, steamed in the oven, boiled or fried.

The history of figgy pudding dates back to 16th century England. Its possible ancestors include savory puddings such as crustades, fygeye or figge (a potage of mashed figs thickened with bread), creme boiled (a kind of stirred custard), and sippets. In any case, its methods and ingredients appear in diverse older recipes. Today, the term figgy pudding is known mainly because of the Christmas carol “We Wish You A Merry Christmas,” which repeats, “Now bring us some figgy pudding” in the chorus, indicating that it was a Christmas traditional dish served during the season and thus might potentially be given to Christmas carolers.

Tempted to make your own figgy pudding for your holiday table? Try this recipe.

Christmas stockings: why did Santa decide to tuck presents into wet socks? While there are no written records of the origin of the Christmas Stocking, there are popular legends that attempt to tell the history of this Christmas tradition. One such legend has several variations, but the following is a good example: Very long ago, there lived a poor man and his three very beautiful daughters. He had no money to get his daughters married, and he was worried what would happen to them after his death.

Saint Nicholas was passing through when he heard the villagers talking about the girls. St. Nicholas wanted to help, but knew that the old man wouldn`t accept charity. He decided to help in secret. He waited until it was night and crept through the chimney.

He had three bags of gold coins with him, one for each girl. As he was looking for a place to keep those three bags, he noticed stockings of the three girls that were hung over the mantelpiece for drying. He put one bag in each stocking and off he went. When the girls and their father woke up the next morning, they found the bags of gold coins and were of course, overjoyed. The girls were able to get married and live happily ever after.

This led to the custom of children hanging stockings or putting out shoes, eagerly awaiting gifts from Saint Nicholas.

Silent Night: I love this story behind one of the most loved Christmas songs of all time. The carol was first performed in the Nikolaus-Kirche (Church of St. Nicholas) in Oberndorf, Austria on December 24, 1818. Mohr had composed the words two years earlier, in 1816, but on Christmas Eve brought them to Gruber and asked him to compose a melody and guitar accompaniment for the church service.

In his written account regarding the composition of the carol, Gruber gives no mention of the specific inspiration for creating the song. According to the song’s history provided by Austria’s Silent Night Society, one supposition is that the church organ was no longer working so that Mohr and Gruber therefore created a song for accompaniment by guitar. Silent Night historian, Renate Ebeling-Winkler Berenguer says that the first mention of a broken organ was in a book published in the U.S.

Some believe that Mohr simply wanted a new Christmas carol that he could play on his guitar. The Silent Night Society says that there are “many romantic stories and legends” that add their own anecdotal details to the known facts. You can still visit the chapel today, and its is known popularly as The Silent Night Chapel.

I’d love to hear any other Christmas time legends and stories you may uncover this holiday season!

The photo above depicts traditional figgy pudding.