adventure, choices, creativity, imagination

Beginning: Wander With a Purpose

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“Not all who wander are lost.” ~J. R. R. Tolkien

Yesterday I wrote about the need to begin over and over again, to never give up, to take our punches and then try again. It’s also important to understand that it’s okay to try a lot of different avenues. You don’t need to beat your head against the wall trying the same idea over and over again until you get it to work. Give your idea a fair shake, but if it feels like the battle of your life and the fun’s drifted out of it, there’s nothing wrong with cutting your losses and going in another direction.

A friend recently told me that some members of her family don’t think highly of her because she’s not focused enough, because she’s taken her life in so many different directions. But they’ve been purposeful. She’s taken up new ideas with enthusiasm and the desire to learn something new. It takes courage to have curiosity, and it makes for a rewarding life. She wouldn’t have it any other way, and neither would I!

There’s no universal rule that says we need to be one-dimensional, that says if we get this degree or have that job then this has to be our sole purpose. I always love to meet people who mix it up – dancers who are passionate about zoology, physicists who love to cook, corporate attorneys who design clothing. It’s a healthy thing to follow our interests wherever they lead. It’s important to explore and grow. That’s what this life is all about – taking in all the wonder that the world has to offer and then finding a way to give it meaning in the pursuit of a worthwhile way to spend our time.

So you go right ahead and wander. Travel with conviction, and make it valuable for you and for others. Keep your head up, your eyes open, and your ears attuned to your surroundings. You’ll be amazed by all you find on your journey.

1 thought on “Beginning: Wander With a Purpose”

  1. SO true! I find it refreshing when people have so many interests and aspirations that are unrelated. Managing multiple directions is what keeps people going and is often what makes them unique. No one should be defined by just their job or career. I know I’ve always got my mind preoccupied with several interests and goals, and I try to get involved in a variety of unrelated fields that interest me through volunteering, networking or just simple learning. Whether it’s marketing career interests or my wish to open up my own restaurant (I’m a huge foodie) one fine day…..it’s nice to not settle for just one path and instead wonder about the different opportunities out there and see where life will take you. After all, …..”wandering” can be worthwhile if it’s something you enjoy doing.

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