Beginning: 10 Things I’ve Done to Ease My Dog’s Separation Anxiety

Last week Phin, my faithful and adorable dachshund, had a bit of a setback in his training. To be fair, his schedule was a little out of whack with me coming home after work to walk him and then leaving again to meet friends, as well as having friends visit us before we all went out together, leaving Phin at home on Saturday night. His separation anxiety came back with a vengence with these changes and sent him into a panic, shaking and crying, sometimes for hours. Most of my neighbors were exceedingly kind about the situation and concerned about Phin since he has been fine for months.

Yoga and dogs
For a moment I stepped back and thought how ironic it is that I am a yoga instructor who teaches relaxation and stress reduction, and my dog has separation anxiety. Then again, if anyone can understand what he’s going through and ease that feeling in him, it should be me. This is the professional calling of my life – to help others find ease and to become aware of their own inner confidence.

The toll of stress
The weekend with Phin was stressful, and it was a wake-up call for me. I had forgotten how much stress can harm us if left unchecked. Within hours I had developed a stiff neck, a loss of appetite, restlessness coupled with exhaustion, tight muscles, a general state of nervousness / anticipation, a fuzzy mind that made it difficult to think clearly, and my skin broke out. I wanted so much to help Phin, and yet felt so unstable myself. If I felt this badly, I could barely imagine how upset he must have been! It was a reminder of how important the work of stress reduction is, and how much of my life I used to spend in this state.

Calm, assertive, and relaxed
Several days later, and back into a normal routine, I’m glad to report that Phin is back to his sweet, calm self. Animals, and dogs in particular, are creatures of habit. They thrive on rituals and predictability. Stability and structure is something Phin needs as we slowly work toward his rehabilitation, and as his loving caretaker it is my responsibility to provide that for him. It will take patience and time, and there will undoubtedly be stumbling blocks for us. I sometimes forget that Phin and I are still at the very beginning of our relationship because I feel like I’ve had him forever.

Tips to ease anxiety in dogs
Here are some tips that so many incredible friends and animals advisors gave to me over the past few days that have helped Phin and I by leaps and bounds. There is no way to thank so many people for their support and love:

1.) I put his playpen back into place, leaving the door open but giving him a room of his own

2.) I put him back on his homeopathic anxiety relief supplement that helped so much when I first adopted him

3.) When the cold weather set in, I gave Phin a down comforter to snuggle into. I had put it into my laundry bag last week and now that he has it back he seems to feel much more secure. Just like Linus.

4.) Despite the cold, I am waking up earlier and walking Phin for a full hour every morning. Bundle up!

5.) He’s got a stash of new toys that seem to keep him more occupied: an extreme kong (which I now stuff and freeze), a tuffy circle, and a kong bouncy ball.

6.) Rather than just leaving music on during the day, I leave the TV on for him so he has the comfort of hearing human voices. I’m relying on him to keep me up-to-date on breaking news.

7.) Taking a cue from Temple Grandin’s research, I purchased a Thundershirt – a soft, close-fitting shirt that applies very slight compression to Phin and is said to ease anxiety in 85% of dogs. $36 and it comes with a money-back guarantee if it doesn’t work. I have nothing to lose so we’re going to give it a whirl.

8.) I’ve decided to have my dog walker come back regularly in the near future. Walking with other dogs gives Phin the experience of being with a pack of his canine pals. Walks with Jamie, my dog walker, helped him tremendously when I first adopted him and also eased up my after-work schedule. It’s important for him to be able to walk well with someone other than me, and it will make it easier on him whenever I might need to board him in the future.

9.) One of my neighbors suggested that a stuffed animal might help Phin feel less lonely when I’m gone. Kind of like a teddy bear helps little kids go to sleep. I gave Phin a plush Kermit the Frog, expecting him to rip it up in no time. He chewed it a bit and now happily uses it as a pillow.

10.) I had been leaving one my t-shirts in his travel carrier and moved that t-shirt to his dog bed. With that t-shirt, he knows I’ll always come back to take care of him.

My role in Phin’s rehabilitation
I’m not sure if it’s just one of those things or the combo that is really helping Phin. All I do know is that he seems to be in a more zen state in our home, and to me that’s all that really matters. As his owner, it’s incumbent upon me to be his leader and to constantly provide him with my calm, assertive energy. And not just 99% of the time, but all of the time. I saved a life by adopting him, and I want our life together to be well-lived.

If you have rescued and rehabilitated animals, I’d love to hear your stories! Any advice is most welcomed here 🙂

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