care, health, teaching, yoga

Step 310: Healing by Example

“The physician who knows only medicine, knows not even medicine.” It would follow that the care-taker that does not care for themselves cannot care-“fully” for others.” ~ Mark Twain

Yoga City NYC is a fantastic resource for anyone interested in yoga and wellness, two giant common interests among many New Yorkers. In their newsletter last week they published this quote by Mark Twain. It reminds me of how important it is as a teacher to not only compose a well-organized yoga class, but to practice what I teach in my daily life for my own benefit. To give care, we need to receive care, too.

For the new year, I am exploring new opportunities to teach yoga to under-served populations in unconventional spaces. Caregivers are a population I’m particularly keen on because it would help me to lever up my impact. If I can help caregivers be well, then they can take care of others more effectively. Caregivers come in many forms – doctors, nurses, teachers, coaches, mentors. They give of themselves every day, but how often does anyone give to them?

I hear a lot of people, especially moms, say that they just don’t have time to take care of themselves because they’re too busy taking care of everyone else. The truth is that taking care of themselves is the best way that they can care for others. We can’t give from a deficit – the math just doesn’t work that way. So if we really want to heal and care for others, we need to heal ourselves first. And there’s not a single selfish thing about self-care; it’s actually the most generous thing we can do. What we give is rooted in what we have.

2 thoughts on “Step 310: Healing by Example”

  1. I just saw this one this morning on twitter;

    It is not doing good that comes first, but ceasing to hurt, not adding to suffering. Nisargadatta Maharaj

    It’s so true. I too work with healing healers – mostly because they are the people I know! 🙂 Also because they need it the most. It is terribly draining to (try to) help others unless you, yourself are whole. I think that all good intentions aside, coming from any other place does add to the suffering. As usual Christa, you are on the right track with your work and your intentions :D. I love that you are so AWAKE!

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  2. Trish, I so benefit from the example of people like you. For so long, I thought being a healer meant self-sacrifice and during my yoga teacher training I finally woke up in a big way. I can do the most good when I’m in the best shape I can be in – physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. Then I can really harness that goodness for others. Thanks for all of your encouragement and inspiration!

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