“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping’.” ~ Fred Rogers, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember
I feel sick watching the news about the unending oil spill in the Gulf. As someone who has worried about our water supply since age 5, this story breaks my heart. Bill Maher got it right when we so poetically stated, “Every a**hole who ever chanted ‘drill baby drill’ should have to report to the Gulf coast today for cleanup duty.” I agree.
Whenever these sad moments hit me, I go to my book shelf and pull from a small collection of books that I refer to again and again for inspiration. The World According to Mister Rogers is one of those books. For Christmas in 2003, my mom bought me this book about Mister Rogers. The inscription on the inside of the book reads, “This book is dedicated, in Fred Roger’s memory, to anyone who has loved you into being.” My mom added, “and continues to love you every day for everything you do, for caring so much about all of us. I feel so lucky to have you as my daughter.” Moms always have a way of making us feel better, no matter how bleak the world may seem.
Last week, my yoga teacher Stacey read us the quote at the top of this post. I had forgotten it and when I went searching through the book tonight, I found it on p. 187. It made me feel better about the Gulf. And about Haiti and Afghanistan and the South Bronx. Blight and tragedy play out all over the globe every day, making it too easy to get lost in the sadness. Look for the helpers – they dwell in every neighborhood, sometimes acting behind the scenes and sometimes taking their rightful place at center stage. Find them, wherever they live, and celebrate them.
Mister Rogers taught me about community and the priceless value of a helpful neighbor. I grew up in a tiny, rural town on an apple orchard. We struggled financially; a lot of people in my town did. But we had really kind, generous neighbors, and we tried to return the favor every day. We tried to take care of each other as best we could. In my cushy Manhattan apartment tonight, I may have left behind the circumstances of my childhood, but I never lost the lessons of good neighbors.
P.S. – Trish Scott, a very talented writer, animal behavior expert, and extremely loyal reader of my blog wrote a post several years ago about how Mister Rogers raised $20M in 6 minutes. She put this link into the comments section but it’s so powerful, I had to include it on the main page of this post. Happy reading!
Published by Christa Avampato
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Writer. Health, education, and art advocate. Theater and film producer. Visual artist. Product geek. Proud alumnae of the University of Pennsylvania (BA) and the Darden School of Business at the University of Virginia (MBA). Inspired by ancient wisdom & modern tech. Proliferator of goodness. Opener of doors. Friend to animals. Fan of creative work in all its wondrous forms. I use my business skills to create passion projects that build a better world. I’ve been called the happiest New Yorker, and I try hard to live up to that title every day.
The long of it:
My career has stretched across Capitol Hill, Broadway theatre, education, nonprofit fundraising, health and wellness, and Fortune 500 companies in retail, media, entertainment, technology, and financial services. I’ve been a product developer and product manager, theater manager, strategic consultant, marketer, voice over artist, , teacher, and fundraiser. I use my business and storytelling to support and sustain passion projects that build a better world. In every experience, I’ve used my sense of and respect for elegant design to develop meaningful products, services, programs, and events.
While building a business career, I also built a strong portfolio as a journalist, novelist, freelance writer, interviewer, presenter, and public speaker. My writing has appeared in The Washington Post, The Huffington Post, PBS.org, Boston.com, Royal Media Partners publications, and The Motley Fool on a wide range of topics including business, technology, science, health, education, culture, and lifestyle. I have also been an invited speaker at SXSW, Teach for America, Avon headquarters, Games for Change, NYU, Columbia University, Hunter College, and the Alzheimer’s Foundation of America. The first book in my young adult book series, Emerson Page and Where the Light Enters, was acquired by a publisher and launched in November 2017. I’m currently working on the second book in the series.
A recovering multi-tasker, I’m equally at home in front of my Mac, on my yoga mat, walking my rescue dog, Phineas, traveling with a purpose, or practicing the high-art of people watching. I also cut up small bits of paper and put them back together as a collage artist.
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“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping’.” ~ Fred Rogers, The World According to Mister Rogers: Important Things to Remember
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Mr. Rogers and I go back a long way. I was raising my kids during the Viet Nam war. If the TV was on there was always a chance the war would end up in my living room so I just turned it off for the duration EXCEPT for Mr. Rogers and Sesame Street. I learned a lot about how to be a better mom/person when I watched with my kids :). What a force for good he was/is. I found this little video awhile back and it still does me good to take a look from time to time. You have given me the prompt to re-visit today. Thanks Christa for your always wonderful and uplifting posts.
Mister Rogers Raises 20 Million $$$ in 6 Minutes.
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Wow! Trish I love this story and the link is awesome! I am going to link it to the main body of the post so everyone who visits the blog sees it. I love Sesame Street, too. Now that I have a little niece, I’ve been watching it more often and it always puts a smile on my face and teaches me something new. What incredible legacies Mister Rogers and Sesame Street have given us.
Cheers!
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Oooops. Seems we can’t watch that video any more. That’s a shame. It was GREAT.
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I’ll see if I can find the link elsewhere, Trish! It’s a good one 🙂
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This is an excellent post (and I’m not just saying that:). I too get sick to my stomach when listening to reports of oil, water, wildlife. How can this be happening?
It’s nice to hear others verbalize what I feel and also put it in a way that makes me feel better. Thank you and thanks to Mr. Rogers, too.
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Thanks, Sara! Just writing that post and remembering to look for the helpers makes me feel better. And even better, inspires us to be helpers, too.
Just saw your email and replied – would love to collaborate on some projects!
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Christa:
Dear Lord, I wasn’t aware you could swear like a sailor!
Seriously, I would not put it past you if you revealed to this loyal reader that you secretly carry the tattoo of a naked mermaid on your muscular forearm, smoke an illegal Cuban cigar, and that your best friend is a bottle named Jimmy Bean.
Jokes aside, thanks for this post. Mister Rogers and Sesame Street were the best TV shows of my childhood. Ah, memories. It seems today’s kids may be slowly losing that innocence in a rush to be grown-ups. How sad for them.
There are all kinds of things on TV these days. We must remain vigilant. The childhood years are impressionable, and we don’t want our kids to watch the wrong programs.
Cheers!
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Hi Archan,
Do you like how I put stars in place of letters in curse words? I just can’t seem to figure out a way that cursing is relevant on this blog. 🙂
I really hope kids can hang on to their idealism for as long as possible. And I hope that as adults, we can find a way to keep that idealism with us so that we can act upon it.
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I am such a fan of Mister Rogers. His message is simple and inspirational.
Lisa
http://www.singleparentsavings.wordpress.com
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I loved this post. I feel the same way. I try to celebrate good neighbors on my blog whenever possible. Today, for instance, a beekeeper friend offers advice on how to save the honeybees by living a non-toxic life. If only everyone would listen. Seems we are destroying our world, one environmental catastrophe at a time. Ugh!
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