meditation, yoga

Step 104: The Obstacles We Need

I’ve been thinking a lot about obstacles this week. Mostly because my bum and legs are sore from all of the yoga this past weekend, and my body is requiring an unusual amount of sleep to recover. This need for more sleep is slowing down the progress on my too-long to-do list this week. I’ve been focusing on Ganesha, the remover of obstacles, in my meditations. I really needed Ganesha to get some stuff out of my way. I needed to need less sleep, work faster on all of my projects at work, and get up and down the stairs without thinking about my sore bum and legs. He’s not helping. Or at least I didn’t think he was helping me.

About a month ago I went to the kirtan at Sonic Yoga and one of the song we did was a chant to Ganesha. One of the cantors talked about Ganesha as the remover of obstacles, or the one who carefully places obstacles in our way when we need them. I didn’t understand this explanation at the time so naturally I ignored it. But it’s been nagging at the back of my mind. What obstacles could I possibly need, and why would I need them? What good does another obstacles do? I have enough, thank you, Ganesha. Take your obstacles elsewhere. What about the path of the least resistance? How about opening up that way for me?

Then yesterday in my session with Brian, I got it. And it was such a simple explanation that I felt silly for not seeing it sooner. My biggest obstacles have nothing to do with anyone else, anywhere else. They don’t even reside in my own body. They aren’t put upon me; I put my biggest obstacles on myself. My biggest obstacles lie in my mind and my heart and my spirit, and I like to avoid them at all costs. So Ganesha, in his wisdom, forces me to deal with my obstacles by placing other obstacles in my way that I must respond to, ones that I cannot turn away from. I need to slow down, to learn how to make and stick to boundaries, to find my edge and live there – mentally and physically – so he handed me a sore bum and the need for more sleep. I have to slow down this week and deal with that obstacle. I don’t have a choice.

Simple. Wise. Effective. Exactly what I would expect from an enlightened elephant.

The image above is not my own. It can be found here.

9 thoughts on “Step 104: The Obstacles We Need”

  1. hehe I love Ganesha and so does Monte, we actually have a Ganesha that watches over MOnte as he sleeps. It is his fave toy. I have a few obstacles at the moment and need to discover their purpose…

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    1. Hi Sharni! How cool that you and Monte love Ganesha, too. What drew you to him? Where did you get your statue of Ganesha? I’ve been wanting to do a meditation alter and am looking for places to buy a few little statues.

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  2. Christa:

    Ganesha is the son of Shiva and Parvati.

    Many Hindus worship Ganesha, a popular deity. Ganesha is indeed the remover of obstacles.

    If you are looking for statues of Ganesha and other deities, maybe it would be a good idea to check out Jackson Heights?

    If memory serves, New Jersey also has fabulous shops and restaurants where the Indian community congregates; they would be glad, I am sure, to answer your questions.

    The aches and pains come and go. Pretty soon, your body will get conditioned to it. Just make a habit out of it and you can’t go wrong. Professional athletes know about this from personal experience.

    Things will work out your way. Give yourself the TLC treatment. This has helped me to overcome challenges during meditation and while playing sports. Cheers!

    And, by the way, it’s great to know you are experimenting and moving forward. Wish you a fabulous lifestyle!

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  3. Hey Christa,

    Forgot to mention….oops!…my mistake…but let me add…

    Hoboken and Jersey City are in New Jersey, your neighboring state, which is only a short bus/train ride away.

    There are plenty of Indian shops, restaurants, yoga centers, and other stuff associated with South Asia and Hinduism at these places.

    Just thought I would share this information, since this seems to be something you may be interested in exploring, maybe?

    I have heard there are plenty of idols, statues and other exotic stuff, including ethnic garments/clothes, available in this area. And if you haggle well, you may even get a good bargain. Hope this helps you. Have a nice day. And cheerio!

    (P.S. There’s a reason why Ganesha has the body of a human being, a male, but the head of an elephant. Go figure. That information would be available in a book on Ganesha or Hindu “mythology.” That particular story, when I learned about it, really moved me. Such devotion!)

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    1. Hi Archan – thank you for all of this incredible information!! I’m going to take myself on a little adventure to these places once my weekends are freed up after I have my yoga certification. Can’t wait to see what I find. How do you know so much about these areas? Did you used to live in NYC or do you have family here?

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  4. Christa:

    Well, I am happy to share this information, because I want you to be happy, successful and feel fulfilled about your life.

    As a well-wisher–and a regular reader of your fabulous blog–I want to encourage you to pursue your dreams.

    To answer your question, I heard about these areas by word-of-mouth: people gossip and these places are well-known in certain niche circles.

    Since we are on the same wave-length (for the most part), yes, please make sure to keep your weekends free. You won’t regret this trip, trust me. It will be an experience you will recount to your near and dear ones, again and again. You may even feel like recording these experiences in your personal diary: it will move you, if done properly.

    Make sure to eat a meal there, either in NJ or NYC. There are plenty of Indian restaurants in these areas. You can either opt for a buffet or order your own stuff. Both vegetarian and non-vegetarian options are available.

    And ask around for books on meditation, yoga and Hinduism, especially mythology at the Indian bookstores.
    The customer service representatives will help you: many of them understand English quite well. Reading these books will help you on your life’s journey, since this is something I know you will be interested in exploring.

    It gladdens my heart whenever I read that you are moving forward despite obstacles and making progress in life. You deserve it. You have worked your tail off to achieve. May your days be filled with sunshine and laughter. Cheers!

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    1. Thanks, Archan, for all of your support, advice, and knowledge. I am so appreciative that you share so much of yourself here on this blog. Now, I can’t wait for you to start writing regularly. You have so much to offer and I want to read more of your writing.

      When I visit these places that you suggest, I’ll be sure to let you know what I find!

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    1. Hi Hermila,
      That’s so kind of you to ask! You are welcome to use a quote from this post so long as it’s clear that it is a quote and you provide credit via a mention and a link. That’s true for almost all blogs out there – so long as you provide the credit, you’re free to link back to it, provide further commentary, etc.

      Let me know when your post is live – I’d love to read it!

      Cheers!

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