career, change, grateful, gratitude

Leap: A Graceful Exit is Always Possible

In any transition, we often focus on the end goal. In my year of leaping into full-time entrepreneurship, I’ve spent a lot of time planning how to successfully complete that transition: personal financial planning, long-term strategy for Compass Yoga, funding, and partnerships that will grow our programming. But there’s an often overlooked detail when we make any change – we need to mind our exit.

Exits can be fast or slow. They can be in phases or a jump with both feet in the air at once. They can be handled with style and grace or they can be botched with anger, disappointment, and resentment. I’m not sure of the speed or pace of my exit from corporate life just yet, but I know I want it be graceful and grateful.

I learned a lot in journey along the corporate road. I worked with some very smart people who spent a lot of time investing in me, as a person and as a professional. My leaving has very little to do with them and everything to do with me – I need to do the work of my life and that work lies in a different direction. There’s no excuse for anything less than grace when I close that door for the very last time.

I thought a lot about endings as Phin and I took our final 2011 walk through Central Park on December 31st. It was a 3-hour venture through the North Woods, and no matter how long the walk, Phineas always wishes it could be longer. It was sunny and mild, ringing in at 55 degrees. Despite all of 2011’s troubles, it found a way to leave a good last impression.

And if a year as tough as 2011 can do that, then so can we.

6 thoughts on “Leap: A Graceful Exit is Always Possible”

  1. Glad to have found you through Katherine’s blog:) I am a beginner too:) Decided to launch a new blog, leaving an old one with 517 followers behind…new beginnings, they refresh and inspire me.

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    1. Hi Kala,
      It was so lovely for Katherine to include me in her 31 writers in January. I’m thrilled! How exciting that you’ve started a new blog. I’ll hop over and check it out. Why did you decide to give up your old one?

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  2. Hi Christa,

    Yes, graceful exits are so important. I can relate. My energy is also pulling me away from my day job in the direction of my dreams. I feel I’ll also be making this transition full-time soon. The in-between is a little strange as my energy wants to be elsewhere, but I am taking it moment to moment. All the best to you and your transition and exit!

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    1. I am so excited to hear this, Katherine! Certainly with your book launching in the Spring (yay!), the leap may be in the hands of the universe.

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  3. I am transitioning from corporate life, too. It’s not a graceful as I wish it to be. Today I realize that it is partly because I am holding on tight at the same time I’m trying to let go. That pretty much preclude gracefulness.

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    1. Adela, we’re in this together! I have a painting my home by Brian Andreas that always helps me with this very challenge you’re talking about. It says: “If you hold on to the handle, she said, it’s easier to maintain the illusion of control. But it’s more fun if you just let the wind carry you.” Take to the wind.

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