“The path from imbalance back to balance is a labyrinth.” ~ Dr. Bhaswati Bhattacharya
I arrived in Florida yesterday after a too-long flight and after too many months without a vacation. I didn’t realize just how tired I was until I was on the bus to the airport. I felt out of balance; the past few months have been emotional and my schedule has been packed to the gills. It’s time to decompress and release.
The long and winding road
The labyrinth back to balance that Dr. Bhaswati speaks about hit me full force once we were airborne. My thoughts were jumbled, and I could feel my body racing despite the fact that I was sitting down. Since my therapeutic yoga teacher training, I’ve been very aware of the effects of the stress response, aka fight or flight, on my body. Stress triggers a number of changes in the body that we can actually feel if we tune into them: our muscles tense, our blood pressure rises, and our digestive system slows down.
In the last few months when I feel these changes kicking in, I stop and breathe as deeply as possible into my belly. It’s been a conscious, constant effort, though entirely worth it. I feel more in tune with the changes my body makes involuntarily in response to stress and I voluntarily make changes to counteract these responses. It is give and take, a long and winding labyrinth.
Stress doesn’t discriminate
We can’t control the initial reactions of our bodies to stress. Much of it is regulated by our sympathetic (involuntary) nervous system and there is a good reason for that. The fight or flight response is meant to keep us safe; however, it’s not meant to be turned on all the time as happens with today’s society of constant stress and so with constant stress we run into big trouble. Our body has only one set of responses to stress – whether our stress is caused by a deadline at work, a traffic jam, or a tiger who’s on our tail. What I’m learning through yoga and meditation is that we have the ability to talk our bodies down off the ledge. We can tell ourselves, “Look, I know you’re freaking out right now, but it really is going to be okay. Just breathe.” That breath – deep into the belly, even inhales and exhales – is our guide, our guru. It takes us up and away from where we feel trapped and scared into a space that feels open and safe.
All I really have to do is breathe?
It sounds so simple, and it really is. When everything else falls away, our breath is always with us. So get some bright-colored paper, grab a sharpy, and write out the simple word “BREATHE” in big, bold letters. Post it around your home, your office, in your wallet, and in your car. Type it up as a to-do in your calendar on your phone and set a reminder every hour or two. Breathe, and find your way back to balance. Let me know how it goes.
Christa Avampato 
Thank You, Christa, this is a terrific post–as usual.
In ancient India, the seers said, “breath is life.”
In our daily lives we are surrounded by stressors. Unfortunately, we convert those stressors into stress.
In fact, Bruce Lee once said–to paraphrase him–that if “you do not control your emotions, your emotions will control you.”
However, there is hope–life can be better. Yogic masters have proved that they are the ones who are in charge.
Yogic masters, through personal, self-mastery, have demonstrated how it is possible to connect mind, body and spirit. Indeed, wholistic living is possible in the here and now.
They are able to use self-control through various yogic disciplines. I am not a yogic master yet, but I know this is possible. We have not fully tapped into and released our full, human potential. Hence, homeostasis is indeed possible.
In your case, I would suggest: it is time for you to relax and find your center. In fact, I am glad you have taken a break. Take frequent vacations to meet your near and dear ones in Florida and elsewhere. Take time out for yourself–just for you.
And try massage, acupuncture, aromatherapy, and sauna or steam baths coupled with swimming in the pool. It will help you to unwind and I think you owe it to yourself.
You follow a hectic schedule in the Big Apple, but I feel that it would be wise to be kinder and gentler with yourself on a regular basis. Try to include such breaks in your daily schedule.
Type A personalities are a dime a dozen in the Big Apple, but they tend to fizzle out. Corporate burn-out is so common, that’s why they have EAP. My hope is that you will be more sensitive to your needs in the near future.
As always, my best wishes. Have a good one. Namaste.
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Thanks, Archan. I am always amazed by just how much a great big belly breath does for my spirit. What a gift to have learned!
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