“All motion is cyclic. It circulates to the limits of its possibilities and then returns to its starting point.” ~ Robert Collier
Last week Dailygood ran a piece about letting go of certain possibilities. I thought about that idea all day. I felt not that I didn’t have enough options but that I had too many options, too many interests, too many opportunities that in my mind were all good. One part of me felt extraordinarily lucky to be blessed with so many choices and the other part felt overwhelmed. I felt pulled in so many directions, a situation that I created.
I realized that once again it was priority-making time. The older I get, the more often my life seems to need a wringing out. I find that I increasingly need more idle time to let ideas marinate, and to create that idle time I have to let some possibilities pass by, despite their potential.
There are some things I will have to stop doing. So here’s what I’ve decided to close:
1.) In mid-March, I’m going to stop renting at Pearl Studios in favor of another yoga teaching opportunity that has come about. (More on that when the opportunity takes flight in mid-March.)
2.) In addition to this blog, I’m focusing only on one independent writing project – my book about yoga and personal finance. I’ve laid out a writing schedule to get it finished by October. I’m also pursuing several writing opportunities with other outlets in an effort to expand my reach, and my content on this blog is going to be syndicated by another site. (More on that in a later post.)
3.) I’ve decided to only date guys that truly have long-term potential. If it’s just a “fun while it lasts” situation, then I need to sideline that in a hurry.
4.) I’m going to stop trying to think of ways to make my day job the perfect job. There are aspects of my job that I find really fascinating (mobile technology) and aspects of it that hold absolutely no interest for me (politics, jockeying for funding and influence). Eventually, I know that I will move on from this job to something that focuses more on where my personal interests truly lie. I stopped worrying about what that opportunity will be, having confidence that when the time is right, that new opportunity will present itself through my own hard work. I felt a tremendous amount of freedom when all of a sudden I stopped viewing my current role as the end destination. The daily grind I felt there has been put to rest.
How about you? Are there things that you’re going to stop doing in an effort to make more room in your life? Can you find freedom in letting go?
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Published by Christa Avampato
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Author, journalist, digital product manager, and licensed New York City tour guide. Creator and host of NYC's Secrets and Lies. Alumna of the University of Pennsylvania (BA), the Darden School of Business at the University of Virginia (MBA), Arizona State University (Biomimicry), and the University of Cambridge (MSt in Sustainability Leadership).
I build digital media platforms, report on urban climate resilience and biodiversity, and produce live narrative experiences that connect communities to history, nature, and place.
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My work centers on a single thread: building systems and stories that foster deep connection to our shared world. Across digital streaming, environmental reporting, and live civic storytelling, I design experiences that help people understand complex ideas and the environments around them.
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At Carnegie Hall, I serve as Digital Product Manager, leading product strategy, operations, and technical delivery for the video streaming platform Carnegie Hall+. I translate artistic mission into scalable, high-performance streaming architecture that reaches audiences globally. Previously, I led agile product and delivery teams across operations and compliance at American Express, managed Broadway theatrical productions and national tours, and guided strategic initiatives across cultural institutions.
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As a freelance journalist, I investigate how living systems, urban infrastructure, and human culture intersect. My reported features on urban decarbonization, biodiversity, coastal resilience, and biomimicry appear in publications including Smithsonian Magazine, The Washington Post, Mongabay, Natural History Magazine, and Foreign Policy Magazine. In fiction, I write the Emerson Page young adult novel series, alongside upcoming historical fiction and nonfiction works on New York history, mythology, and human resilience. I also write Togetherhood, a LinkedIn newsletter focused on urban ecology and community restoration, and co-host the podcast Frameworks in the Wild.
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“All motion is cyclic. It circulates to the limits of its possibilities and then returns to its starting point.” ~ Robert Collier
I can always find something to let go to make me more free. The hardest one is “the past”. Once a person decides to let the negative part of the past be in the past, they will never truly be free. Its the hardest thing to do. Once you let it go, whatever it is that either haunts you or drags you back, its a great feeling…Good luck with all that you do, you are a remarkable person
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That is so true! The past is really a difficult thing to leave truly in the past. I read a wonderful Cherokee Proverb yesterday that states “Don’t let too much of yesterday steal today.” We rehash our past over and over, missing out on the here and now. Thank you for the thoughtful comment and encouragement!
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You are wise beyond your years! It seems that we have been conditioned to believe that we can have it all and have it all right now. That is a lie perpetuated by people who don’t really want us to have anything at all.
The truth is, you can’t have it all. Nor should you want it all because much of it isn’t that satisfying or fulfilling. Focusing on what you are called to do and gifted to do is at the heart of living at peace and working at things with lasting value. I applaud your discernment and discipline.
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Such a good point, Lisa. We can’t have it all, all the time, and actually we don’t even want all of it to begin with! Focus eases our anxiety and there’s so much power to be found in letting go of what no longer serves us and our dreams.
Here’s to pitching what doesn’t excite us in favor of pursuing our passions!
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