community, society

Step 138: Invest in Others

“We are each other’s harvest; we are each other’s business; we are each other’s magnitude and bond.” ~ Gwendolyn Brooks

As the weather gets milder, I’m spending more time on my terrace. I stare up at all of those stars, and they remind me that the world has a lot of room for glowing. I really hate that term “top performers”, the idea that the world takes shape on a bell curve with us as nothing more than points on that path, grouped in standard deviations from the mediocre mean. Ridiculous. If the universe in its infinite wisdom thought that way about the galaxy, I would spend my nights gazing into a black, empty sky, with hardly any light.

Everyone has within them the opportunity to display extraordinary abilities. Our only real work consists of bringing out that glimmer in ourselves, and in those around us. We owe it equally to ourselves, to those with us now, to those who came before us, and those who will follow. I for one would rather leave a legacy of light than a legacy inscribed with the idea of “I did what was rational, safe, and standard.” I would rather believe that by changing expectations, I can change performance. I would rather spend my days chasing down my own unlikely dream than abiding by someone else’s rules and standards.

I invest in people before I invest in the stock market. When push comes to shove, I double down on my own efforts and I don’t bank on a better opportunity to magically appear. I have to build the better opportunity, for myself and for others as my responsibility, my privilege. After all, without one another, we don’t have much at all.

The image above is not my own. It can be found here.

6 thoughts on “Step 138: Invest in Others”

  1. Christa:

    Bell Curve. Now, now…what’s up with that, yo?

    Truer words were never said. Top performers, indeed.

    You just keep on shining like those stars in the sky. It also seems like you are one of those “people persons.” Oh, no.

    Wish I had your people skills. I am too clumsy and frequently fall on my face due to accursed two left feet. The klutz, me. The fraidy cat, me. The holy man, me.

    You are oriented towards others. Me too: I like to make people smile and laugh and my friends love me for it.

    The ladies are another ballgame. They turn into Bruce Lee and belt me one whenever they ask me to dance.

    Wrong move, ladies. I step on their toes while dancing, and fall on the waiter. On the other hand, it is rather hilarious. People have a good time at my expense.

    Oh, well, you can’t win ’em all. Cheerio.

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    1. Archan,
      Every one of your comments reveal a bit more of your sense of humor. I love it! 🙂 There’s always dance lessons…

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  2. Christa,

    I feel so fortunate that my star got to glimmer next to your big bright glow for a while. I enjoy your perspective. It has gotten under my skin, and it’s starting to shape my own. See you Thursday night.

    Rachel

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    1. Hi Rachel! So glad you came to visit and left a comment. Woohoo! The yoga teacher training has been such a blessing, as have so many of the connections I’ve made, including ours. This is only the beginning 🙂

      See you Thursday!

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