The fabulous folks at Blue Marble Ice Cream have started up a non profit, Blue Marble Dreams. They are building an ice cream shop in Rwanda as a safe community gathering place. To make this dream come to life, they need our help. Here is the pitch posted on Daily Candy:
Category: volunteer
American Express Members Project
The American Express Members Project is an opportunity for American Express Card Holders, and Guests who don’t have an AMEX card, to create briefs for philanthropic projects that are then voted on to have the opportunity to win $2.5 million dollars worth of funding from American Express. My friend Amy just sent me a message letting me know that a nonprofit we have worked with has a project available for voting. “Help Women and Children Survivors of War Rebuild” by Women for Women International.
Finding Purpose in Africa
Tap Project 2008
Anyone who can solve the problems of water will be worthy of two Nobel prizes – one for peace and one for science.
~ John F. Kennedy
HelpOthers.org
People need a mission – something to keep them going when the going gets tough. For some it’s work, for others it’s family and friends. Could be a hobby or volunteer work. The folks at HelpOthers.org take pride in making a stranger’s day a little bit easier and then asking those strangers to pay the favor forward to others.
A few months ago I signed up for their weekly email, Smile Newsletter, that records the antics of good samaritans across the globe. A story from this week’s newsletter, below, made me laugh and reminded me that even when it comes to doing good deeds, it’s helpful to be flexible. Enjoy!
“I went into a laundrymat today to leave money for someone to find to do their wash, so I had my coins and tape and was looking around for a spot to leave them when this distraught lady said, ‘Oh you have tape! I really need some my top is cracked and won’t stay on and I didn’t know what I was going to do!’ I’m not sure what was exactly wrong but I was happy to give her some tape and a smile. When I was walking away I heard her say, ‘Thank you, God!’ I went in for one reason but clearly there was another purpose in my being there, even if it was so simple as sharing a piece of tape. It definitely put a smile in my heart!” –RaeofSunshine
The moment of giving
“Generosity lies less in giving much than in giving at the right moment. — Jean de La Bruyere”
The saying “It’s all in the timing” tends to be related to a stroke of good luck, a serendipitous moment that occurs quite by accident with some great fortune attached to it. I am a huge fan of surprises. When I think about acts of kindness that I have experienced in my life, they came in the form of a surprise. My memory of the kindness has nothing to do with the actual gesture, but with the time that the kindness arrived.
My friend, Alex, is a fan of sending cards and little surprises in the mail. She sent me a magnet that I just love when I moved into my new apartment in New York. And she sent me a card during the summer I spent in Atlanta, which was miserable for a variety of reasons. She had no idea how much I needed a smile those days, though her timing was impeccable.
Even a well-timed, unsolicited compliment becomes an act of generosity. Occasionally I change out my picture on my blog or my Facebook page and I am always so touched when someone writes to me to say how much they like the new picture. The same goes for friends of mine who read my blog and reference it to me. I feel so touched when I know they’ve taken time out of their day to read what I’m thinking and writing about.
Simple phone calls do the trick, too. I am always excited to get a surprise call or voice message from someone I wasn’t expecting to hear from, especially when it’s not around a holiday or my birthday. I love those cards, emails, and messages that arrive just to say hi, for no reason in particular except to say “hey, I was thinking about you.”
As I consider gifts I’ll be giving this season I’ll be thinking about the experience they create, how much joy they’ll generate afterwards and hopefully for a long time to come. And this quote also gave me a third dimension to consider, timing. While the secret to a happy life may be to have low expectations, it may also be that we can generate happiness for others by providing unexpected generosity just when we sense that those around us need it most and expect it least.
