Category: vacation

Ethics, New York City, travel, vacation, work, writer, writing

Beautiful: Integrity, Ethics, and Character are Non-Negotiables in Freelance Writing

Christa Avampato
What a beautiful world that would be
What a beautiful world that would be

I don’t ever write anything unless I believe it and support it 100%. That kind of standard has a price. I have a client that wanted me to write a post about crime in Central Park. This is a perfect topic for me because I live on the park and go at least once a day with Phin. I’m very passionate about the park and I like to share my passion for the place with readers. In the past couple of months, I’ve been alarmed by the crimes reported in New York City’s parks, Central Park included. In addition to analyzing crime stats of Central Park for the piece for this client, I also wanted to include a list of safety tips, particularly geared toward tourists who visit the park for the first time.

The client wants a rewrite. They want the piece to be softer and to position the park as a very safe place as opposed to being more data and safety-oriented. They also want it filled with links back to other parts of their site that have nothing to do with crime. I won’t do the re-write and here’s why:

1.) Crime and safety are not soft subjects and they are not topics that should be sugar-coated. Balanced certainly, but being soft on crime in content development is irresponsible. Readers need to armed with the facts: Central Park is far safer than it was 20 years ago and visitors still need to keep safety top-of-mind. They shouldn’t take safety in Central Park for granted because crime is down compared to 20 years ago.

2.) I’m protecting the site from a potential PR disaster. Let’s say that a tourist reads this “softer” article on crime and is lulled into a false sense of security during their visit. If something should happen to that visitor and they say, “I read on (name of site) that Central Park is so safe and look what happened to me” the site could be held responsible. That’s not a risk I’m willing to take with someone’s safety.

3.) Link loaded pieces, under the guise of content marketing, are no better than spam. A few links are helpful. 20 links in one article looks ridiculous. Whenever I see a piece loaded with links, I don’t even read it because I assume it is no better than a paid advertisement. I think this type of piece crosses an ethical line for the sake of marketing. I’ll leave that to other people who want to write those kinds of pieces. It’s not for me.

I did publish the piece, as is, on Allvoices.com. As freelancers, we cobble together our living from a number of different sources. Every dollar counts and sometimes it can feel like we’re backed into a corner, subject to extreme editing (many times by people who are not writers, nor editors) for the benefit of paying clients and at a detriment to our own standards. It’s tough to walk away from money. It’s even more difficult to walk away from money for work I’ve already done and won’t be paid for because I refuse to compromise my principles. However, I go to bed every night with a clear conscience knowing I’ve helped a lot of people and not harmed any. And that’s much more important.

holiday, vacation

Beautiful: Happy Labor Day, Sans Labor

Christa Avampato

“Every person needs to take one day away. A day in which one consciously separates the past from the future. A day in which no problems are confronted, no solutions searched for.” ~ Maya Angelou, Wouldn’t Take Nothing for My Journey Now

I hope today is this kind of day away for all of you. It is for me. Happy Labor Day, sans labor.

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creativity, time, vacation, work

Beautiful: 2 Surefire Ways to Improve a Vacation

Christa Avampato

It is always great to get away from daily living to give ourselves both a physical and mental break. No matter how long I’m away, I always have a little stress that sneaks in on my last day of vacation. This stress could be dramatically reduced in two ways:

1.) a private jet for travel
2.) someone who does all of my work while I’m away so I don’t have to come back to mountains of it

I wonder which is more likely to happen first!

family, time, travel, vacation

Beautiful: Trading a New York State of Mind for a Florida State of Mind

Christa Avampato

7fc4ceabaf49fec6884473bce8bfb40bWhenever I hear Billy Joel sing “New York State of Mind”, I get a little misty-eyed. Call me a sap. This is my city and I love any and every tribute to it. Don’t get me wrong – it’s a loony bin here and you need to be a little crazy to call this place home. When God doled out the crazy genes, or at least the ability to tolerate and even revel in it, I got more than my fair share.

Just as it’s good to step away from work to feel more energized about it, it’s also good to step away from our homes to appreciate what they offer. So off I go to the sunny skies and sandy shores of Florida, one of my 4 annual pilgrimages to see my family, horse around with my nieces during our spontaneous the-world-is-our-dance-floor dance parties, and shop with my mother and sister at places like Target and Publix, the stalwarts of suburban life where everything closes by 9pm and Ellen DeGeneres is queen. It’s such a different pace of life than mine in New York, and I welcome it.

Also, my pup, Phin, is there while I hunt for and settle into a new apartment that’s quieter and more spacious for the two of us. I wish I could tell you I am more excited to see my family than my dog, but it’s just not true. They’re even-steven. I miss his fuzzy face on a minute-by-minute basis and can’t wait until he’s with me again full-time. In the meantime, he’s being lavishly spoiled by my mother, a devout dog lover who thinks canine-liness is next to godliness. The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree, folks.

I’ll also be rounding the bend into year 37 on the 17th while I’m in Florida. My sister asked me what I’d like to do for my birthday. Honestly, I just want to relax as much as possible, take a few long walks, barbecue, and watch cartoons with the people I love most – in that order. The older I get, the more fun I find in the ordinary.

While I’m away, my posts will be considerably shorter, composed mostly of images and a few words. I hope you enjoy them as much as I’m prepared to enjoy Florida.

adventure, vacation, yoga

Beginning: DIY Yoga Retreat in 9 Easy Steps

Christa Avampato

Many yogis dream about the luxury of a relaxing yoga retreat. I attended my first retreat last summer, and it was an interesting experience. I learned a lot while I was there, about myself, about the world, and about what to do and not to do when someday I organize my own yoga retreat in some fantastic location.

Take a yoga retreat on a shoestring budget DIY-style:
Like many of you, I’ve got some financial goals I’m trying to hit this year and with my other travel plans it looks a yoga retreat in an exotic location may have to wait until 2011. Yoga retreats typically run $1200+ without airfare. Sometimes meals and lodging are included, though that’s not always the case, and then there are some incidental expenses that pop up as well. All in, a yoga retreat will typically cost $3000+, not a small sum of money. So I started to think about a DIY (do-it-yourself) option. I’m signed up for so many group couponing sites now that all seem to offer just about the same types of deals everyday. Groupon, Bloomspot, Living Social, and Daily Flock are part of the set. They routinely offer deeply discounted (50%+) passes to yoga studios, and many of them are for unlimited use for a certain period of time (typically a week or 2).

Here’s how a DIY yoga retreat in your own hometown might go in 9 easy steps:
1.) Wake up with the sun

2.) Take a few moments for seated meditation and have some warm tea or warm water with lemon. If you’re feeling hungry a small piece of fruit will help to tide you over until after practice.

3.) Step out for a morning yoga class via a fabulous deal you got through one of the group couponing sites

4.) Enjoy a healthy, substantial meal – many yoga retreats offer vegetarian or vegan cuisine. Find some options nearby via a site like Opentable.

5.) Take the afternoon to sightsee in your own town. We all have touristy type destinations in our own cities that we never seem to have time to visit unless we have guests in town. Now’s your chance to take in these sites without the pressure of entertaining others. Be adventurous!

6.) Grab a small healthy snack before heading to a second yoga class, maybe in a different style or with a different teacher than your morning class.

7.) Take yourself out for a delicious, healthy meal that you can really savor and enjoy.

8.) Let your evening be a time to completely relax and unwind. Is a spa treatment of some kind in order? (Again, your group couponing sites will come in handy for some discounted luxury!) Curling up with a good book, taking a long walk, or beginning some creative project you’ve been meaning to get to can also be a wonderful way to enjoy some R&R.

9.) Before settling in for the night, a long, peaceful meditation can help to seal in all of the good energy from the day, lull yourself to sleep, so that you’re fully recharged to start all over again tomorrow.

3 key things to remember to create a luxurious DIY yoga retreat:
1.) You are on vacation. If you were out-of-town you’d likely not return phone calls, not open mail, and not be attached to your gadgets. Take this time to let go even though you’re in your hometown.

2.) Vacation is a time of re-invention, to try something new. Even though you’re in the comfort of your own home, be a little daring. And that can mean trying a cuisine outside your normal routine, taking in some day time activities that you don’t normally do, or going to a brand new yoga studio.

3.) Get rid of that to-do list. If you were going out-of-town on vacation, all your errands and chores would be done before or after vacation. Take that same approach with your DIY yoga retreat. Really pamper yourself and give yourself the break you deserve, at a small fraction of the cost of going on a more traditional yoga retreat.

And there we have a yoga retreat with no travel delays and at a tiny fraction of the cost of an out-of-town retreat. What do you think? Worthwhile? If you give it a try, let me know how it goes!

books, vacation, writing

Beginning: A Writing Vacation for Me

Christa Avampato

“There are two kinds of people, those who finish what they start and so on.” ~ Robert Byrne

I try to always be a part of the former group that Mr. Byrne details in his quote above. The idea of a project half-done, or worse yet done but not to the best of my ability, makes my stomach turn. I can’t leave things is a state of potential. I like completing things – it’s in my Piscean nature. Because we are the last sign of the zodiac we like endings, preferably happy ones. To compound matters, under the Chinese Zodiac I’m a Fire Dragon. Look out world. I’m here to get things done!

Which brings me to a somewhat troubling and confusing matter in my writing. For about 6 months I’ve had an idea for a book that uses the tenants of a strong yoga practice as the tenants for building a solid personal finance plan. I’m making some progress. Outline’s done and the structure is pretty solid. The first 4 chapters are in very rough written form, and I’ve started on chapter 5. Arguably, these 4 chapters were the hardest to write. Still, I’m not happy with this progress. I wanted to be further along by now. Heck, I wanted to be done by now. And not just because I like to finish projects, but also because this book is really needed, can help a lot of people, and fills a tough-to-fill niche.

So what’s the problem? My multi-tasking nature is getting the best of me, despite my very best attempts at being a recovering multi-tasker. Here’s where the rubber meets the road, where my curious nature gets the best of me. I meditate. I do yoga. And still I’m a little afraid of writing this book because I don’t want it to be less than really awesome. The subject, and the people I’m writing the book for, deserve awesome. And awesome is a tall order.

Of course, I absolutely refuse to stay in this state. I refuse to be my own writing enemy, my own personified version of writer’s block. My perfectionist tendencies are really going to have to find some other place to hang out for a while. I’m taking myself on vacation. A writing vacation.

So what is a writing vacation? I’m going to spend an entire luxurious vacation with the main focus being writing and nothing else. Truth be told, I’m going to do a few other things. I’m going to take some yoga classes, meditate, walk Phin, and eat delicious food, all in an attempt to funnel my creative mind into this book. Other than that, I’ll be in front of my Mac typing away. I’m going to get this rough draft, a full rough draft, completed by Labor Day. No excuses. And you can hold me to that. Actually, I absolutely want you to hold me to that. This self-imposed deadline is just the motivation I need to get my perfectionism to take a break. I’m just going to write until it’s done.

grateful, gratitude, routine, vacation

Step 325: Gratitude Grows Away from NYC

Christa Avampato

I will be the first person to tell anyone why I think New York City is the greatest place on Earth for me. There are so many other cities in the world that I love, but none that feel so like home to me as New York. It is a city that has literally every amenity, experience, and culture imaginable, and then some. But even I, a very proud New Yorker, need a break. Last week I found myself frustrated with the subway, aggravated with the crowds, and sometimes overwhelmed by the noise. I needed time away.

For Thanksgiving week I’m in Florida, where most of my family now lives. (My brother and I are the only ones still in the Empire State.) Phineas took his first plane ride, and I’m staying with my parents for the first time in their new place after their recent retirement. I’m horsing around with my nieces, joking around with my sister, Weez, and talking with my brother-in-law about art, Cesar Milan, and all things Alabama. We’ll be taking a spin around Disney World, checking out the new wizarding world of Harry Potter, and getting our fill of cartoons and old movies. It’s a very different life down here than it is for me at home. And that’s a very good thing.

My mom reminded me yesterday of all the little things that make her life easier now: new appliances, a gym across the street, numerous restaurants she can go to for lunch with my stepfather, and all of the services within walking distance of their new place. (Phineas and I discovered the Starbucks this morning on the other side of their apartment complex.) Palm trees sway, the wading birds call (a little too early in the morning, but a far less jarring sound than the sirens I’m accustomed to), and flip-flops are well-used year-round.

I lived in Florida for a year and a half a number of years ago, though I don’t think it will ever be my home again. However, coming here is a chance for me to recharge with my family and be reminded of just how important little conveniences are. I lose sight of that in New York where we want everything we want, when and where we want it, and 99.9% of the can get it. The appreciation for the little day-to-day events that make life so enjoyable is more readily apparent away from the city that never sleeps, and I’m grateful for the reminder.

time, travel, vacation, volunteer

My Year of Hopefulness – Honoring Time

Christa Avampato

I have only been here three days and I am amazed by how easy it has been to leave behind life in the U.S. for a while. I miss my family, my friends, and my neighborhood, though I don’t miss anything else. I can imagine being here for a very long time with no problem at all. It’s a delicious feeling, far different than any feeling I have experienced on any other vacation. How did this place begin to feel like home so quickly?

Today I had a chance conversation with another volunteer about her experience working at a school just outside of Cartago. She told me what struck her most was the great honor that Costa Ricans feel when an international volunteer works with them. They know how many other ways people have to spend their time and the fact that people travel from foreign countries to participate with Costa Ricans, improving the neighborhoods in this country, is truly a gift for them. This idea of honoring time is so different from the way so many feel in the U.S., and it is a pervasive sentiment throughout this country. Costa Ricans place the highest value on time and the way that it is spent.

At the senior center today in San Rafael, we spent time coloring with the seniors and making reindeer Christmas ornaments from pipe cleaners, clothes pins, and glitter. These simple activities brought them so much joy. Truly what they wanted was just to spend time with us, to talk to us about our lives and theirs. I continue to be struck by how little people need to be happy here, and how sad it is for us in the U.S. to believe that we need so much. My great hope for today is that once I return to the U.S. on Saturday night, I will be able to embrace the idea of honoring time, my own and that of others, and to hang onto the idea that truly we need so little in the way of material items. I need to find a way to carry a little Costa Rica with me wherever I go.

business, nonprofit, travel, vacation, volunteer

My Year of Hopefulness – Cross-Cultural Solutions Part 2

Christa Avampato

Tonight I went to an information session for Cross-Cultural Solutions, an organization that organizes volunteer vacations abroad in 12 countries. In 2005, I spent a month in France and volunteered for an organization that rebuilt ancient architecture to help stimulate tourism in small town in Provence. I loved it and have been wanting to go on another volunteer vacation ever since.

While I enjoyed my experience in France, I was disappointed that the organization did not maintain any contact with me after I returned. I have no idea how the work continued after I left and I’ve lost touch with every person I met while I was there. I tend to thrive in situations with a high amount of ambiguity though I do remember feeling disturbed that there was virtually no preparation given to me before I flew to France. I hoped I’d find someone at the airport when I landed, though had no idea what or who to look for. I wasn’t sure how my days would be structured. I essentially went on blind-faith.

Luckily, I had a great experience in France, though it could just have easily been a disaster. Truly, I was just lucky. What I found most impressive about Cross-Cultural Solutions is their sense of organization, friendly demeanor, and care and concern for volunteers. I sent an email through the website several months ago expressing interest and within 48 hours received a comprehensive email and a phone call. The service was top-notch. The friendliness and enthusiasm by the staff and alumni (yes, they have an alumni network!) for the volunteers, the experience, and the people in-country who benefit from the program.

So what could be improved by Cross-Cultural Solutions? A big lesson for all of us: strike while the iron is hot. I was ready to fork over my credit card number after their incredible presentation and there wasn’t a way for me to do that. I went to one of the team members at the end of the presentation and asked if I could sign up right there. I knew the date I wanted to go and the program I wanted. There wasn’t a way for me to put down my deposit. I needed to go home and sign up on-line or call them tomorrow at the office.

They put forward all of this effort to promote themselves and then didn’t close the deal with a willing consumer. Chances are that someone who is so excited about the program at the presentation will take the time to sign-up once they’re home. However, why not have the option to sign people up on the spot? It would be a win for me and for the organization – and isn’t that what Cross-Cultural Solutions is all about?

vacation, volunteer

My Year of Hopefulness – Cross-Cultural Solutions

Christa Avampato

With everyone tightening their money belts these days, the idea of a vacation, especially a vacation aboard can seem indulgent. But what if you could vacation with a purpose? Could we begin to see money spent on vacations with a purpose as an investment rather than a luxury?

I volunteered for two weeks in France right before I started business school. I worked with La Sabranenque, a nonprofit dedicated to rebuilding ancient architecture in Provence in an effort preserve history and increase tourism. It was an incredible experience – I can say with confidence that it was the most satisfying vacation I ever took. And I’m looking to repeat it.

I began doing some research on-line to see what was out there in the volunteer vacation world. After some searching I found my way to Cross-Cultural Solutions, an organization with well-established volunteer programs in Latin America, Asia, Eastern Europe, and Africa. I am really impressed by the detail on their website, their on-line community of volunteers vacationers, and their personal one-on-one service.

With some experience in this type of vacation, here are some tips that I have found helpful:

1.) Look for well-established programs that have strong relationships in the communities they serve.

2.) Programs that are flexible are usually best: flexible lengths and dates of stay, a flexible number of locations, and flexible kinds of work. I got very lucky with La Sabranenque though in general I’ve found that the more flexibility you have, the more organized the programs are.

3.) Find programs that have past participant testimonials. These are the equivalent of customer reviews. You want to be able to connect with members, past, present, and future to help prepare you for your experience and to connect with once you return. It’s all about building bridges with others in this collective experience.

4.) Different programs have different costs and a variety of different services included with their fees. I have found that the best ones include meals and housing. You also want to be careful of how much time you’ll spend volunteering and how much time you’ll have to explore the country, get to know people in the community, and partake in cultural activities. In France, we volunteered for 4 hours a day and then had the rest of the time to ourselves. For me, this was the perfect combination of meaningful work and downtime.

At this point it sounds like I’ll be heading to Salvador, Brazil some time in the Fall with Cross-Cultural Solutions working with kids. “Salvador has a reputation for enthusiasm and optimism widely known throughout Brazil and the world.” Sounds like the perfect vacation for my year of hopefulness.